WordPress Problems?

my designer took weeks to install my blog – then he DISAPPEARED	where do i find a web designer who’s knows all the technical & SEO stuff?	after upgrading wordpress my blog STOPPED WORKING – automatically
my blog’s been HACKED by SPAMMERS – where do i get help?	i hate cpanel & messing with SYSTEM things – all i want to do is blog	i spent AGES wrapping text around images – still NO CLUE how i did it